I'm friends with this guy who I have feelings for. Unfortunately, he told me he likes someone else, and although it hurt to hear, I supported him in his endeavours to get her as I want him to be happy most of all.
However, she rejected him and now I see a chance to go for him myself. But I don't want to go for him right after he was rejected- I know it would ultimately either lead to me being a rebound or him rejecting me as well as he's not over her. How long should I wait before making a move?
Most Helpful Guy
I'd give him at least a couple of months. In the meantime be a supportive friend and if he happens to get a one night stand in then that might not be a bad thing. At least once he's got the other girl out of his system he'll be more ready to consider you.2
Most Helpful Girl
Whenever you're confident that your approach will be successful.1