I have been following the no contact rule for 2 weeks now...initially he text and called for the first four days following the break up (he broke up with me) then it stopped...a week went by and he text again asking about furniture from the apartment we shared and to see if I wanted it...I told him no I wasn't interested in any of it and I had to go because I was driving... He responded "OK talk to you later take care be safe I still care about u" ...What? What does this mean...Should I get my hopes up?
We were together for almost 3 years and he broke up with me because he wanted to be single and "free"
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Ok, I didn't do the no contact rule and I am friends with me ex still. We do talk and communicate every day but there is nothing in it. I am not sure if the no contact rule works. really. It can give a person time to move on ...a month is a long time and a lot can happen in a month.
He says he cares for you sounds like he still wants to be in your life in some respects but nevertheless, he choose to be single over being with you. Move on and leave him to it. Sort out whatever there is to with furniture etc.
You need time for yourself too, go out and have fun with friends, join groups/clubs meet new people.0