my "boyfriend " and I have been "dating" for almost a Month and I haven't seen him for almost a month. yes I like him but I'm starting to realize I don't like him as much as I thought. and there's this person that I've liked for as long as I can remember. and he told me he likes me and has for a while but was shy. he doesn't know I have a boyfriend. but I was thinking about how if I liked my boyfriend enough there wouldn't be a question and I wouldn't have feelings for anyone else but I do. I know its going to hurt him if I break up with him. and I'd really hate to do that but I don't feel I have a choice. it has to be done. so I need advice how do I break up with him.