my "boyfriend " and I have been "dating" for almost a Month and I haven't seen him for almost a month. yes I like him but I'm starting to realize I don't like him as much as I thought. and there's this person that I've liked for as long as I can remember. and he told me he likes me and has for a while but was shy. he doesn't know I have a boyfriend. but I was thinking about how if I liked my boyfriend enough there wouldn't be a question and I wouldn't have feelings for anyone else but I do. I know its going to hurt him if I break up with him. and I'd really hate to do that but I don't feel I have a choice. it has to be done. so I need advice how do I break up with him.
Most Helpful Guy
It's always hard but it's like ripping off a band-aid, you just have to do it. Just be honest and nice, but you don't have to give specifics either (ie, don't tell him you like someone else lol). Just say something like "so, I've enjoyed our time together but I don't feel we're compatible (or feel the "spark") and I'm sorry, but I think we should move on"1
Most Helpful Girl
I have been in the exact same situation... I used to like this guy and I had just broken up with my boyfriend. After a few weeks, I told that guy that I had liked previously that maybe he and I should be together because I thought that I supposedly had feelings and that I was ready for a relationship. After a month, I realised I still like my ex and nothing would change that. I would suggest telling him the exact way it is. At least you'd be telling the truth 😊 this is what I had told my boyfriend at the time. That I still liked my ex and that I couldn't move on from him. He told me that it was okay and that he understood how hard it'd be. He let me go and said whatever would make me happy would make him happy. It does pay to tell someone how it really is😊. It will hurt... But it'll turn out right if it has to😊 Hope this helps!1