I've been dating her for past 5 years, she cheated on me last year,, (which i found out) in reaction to which she literally cuts her wrist cries for 2 months straight and was extremely guilty about what she did.
Considering she loves me but made a mistake i hugged her forgave her and we both promised to live happily ever after.
Last months she again cheated on me i found it and brokeup with her, she said she didn't want this relationship she needs freedom etc etc. I returned all of her gifts that she gave me i was broken (litterally and showed it i front of her!) she is guilty (because she knows how much i love her) but doesnot wants a relationship back. I just can't get over what happened. May be i loved too much and gave a lot for this relationship
Just wnt to know :
-wht is going on in her mind
- what options do i have.
-how to get over with the depression and trauma im dealimg from past 10 days.
-cant eat - can't study - can't work - just keep on flashing memories in my mind and get depressed 24*7
Need help :(
Most Helpful Girl
You need to talk to someone, I recommend a therapist. Breakups are never easy! But 5 years is a long while. You have invested so much time and energy into that person only for them to throw it away. Accept what you're feeling is normal and cry all you want. Just don't cry too long. Talking with someone may be the best bet. If she did this twice she was never the one for you. You did what you could for her but she couldn't reciprocate those feelings back. Accept that getting over it will take a while but use this time to find yourself again.0
Most Helpful Guy
Try to meet other girls. That will help you to forget it a little.
Surely she is just like you, but do not call her! The sad thing about love is that the person who loves the most is the one who suffers the most, if you continue to show that you are more interested in her than she is in you, she will continue to make the same mistake.
Be strong and do not call her.
Sorry my bad English xd0