If it's an EX then there is a reason (s) why he is an EX. Personally, I wouldn't reopen any chapters to feel anything again. So, on bumping into an EX I would just say HI like the way would say to any acquaintance. 😇 💕
I'm in my first relationship but if I did I'd just treat them like how I treat everyone I know; smile, a little catch-up and then take off unless she cheated or I'm still getting over her I'd ignore her or just smile and walk past
Depends which ex, my most recent id chat too for abit as were still friends, my first ever ex id probs ask if they wanted to hang out as were real good friends and the other one id 100% ignore and just walk away.
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When I bumped into my first ex I got a panic attack, it was terrible seeing him again. That couldn't happen as my second boyfriend lives in a different country, but we often meet, because we are best friends and it just feels really nice to cuddle with him and talk to him and spend time with him in general.
I actually bump into my ex all the time. He may walk on the other side of the street and then he just yells my name and crosses the road just to come and talk to me. I would like to just walk past but it seems impossible.
If it was a real relationship and it ended on my mistake or even forcefully ended by other reasons... Then I would be very soft next to her I guess. It's just very tough, especially if you are emotional and mature. :)
I actually was friends with my ex so I wouldn't be tok torn about it, I'd ask how things have been and how her guy was, ask if any time they wanted to swing by they could
she doesn't even want to look at me and sad thing for her is her best friend is like my little sis also whenever she'd see me and my girlfriend together she'd leave the area xD
I bump into my ex everyday considering the fact that we're still in high school. I recently text him and told him we should attempt to be friends so that it won't be so awkward... he agreed, but we still walk past each other like we didn't spend the whole summer together.
I would say it depends on the ex. most of them I would be excited and literally pick them up with a hug like any old friend, some I'd act happy and take the opportunity to tell them exaggerations about all the great things happening with me, and if there were still feelings I'd lay things out truthfully.
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I'd get anxiety, at this point I'm not sure if I still like him or not
I will say fuck off left hand, right hand was always here for me and you betrayed me, I can't write with you, can't eat, can't paint, find somebody else to waste their time
well say thank you for opening my eyes and shutting my heart for good so I can be more wise with women and be more careful about my work, family and friends... thanks for showing me the true value of women bitch !
I think it's petty to say "that's the point", when most of the time they only say that because they're hurting and if nothing else wanting to hurt you in that moment.
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If it's an EX then there is a reason (s) why he is an EX. Personally, I wouldn't reopen any chapters to feel anything again. So, on bumping into an EX I would just say HI like the way would say to any acquaintance. 😇 💕
I'm in my first relationship but if I did I'd just treat them like how I treat everyone I know; smile, a little catch-up and then take off unless she cheated or I'm still getting over her I'd ignore her or just smile and walk past
Depends which ex, my most recent id chat too for abit as were still friends, my first ever ex id probs ask if they wanted to hang out as were real good friends and the other one id 100% ignore and just walk away.
When I bumped into my first ex I got a panic attack, it was terrible seeing him again. That couldn't happen as my second boyfriend lives in a different country, but we often meet, because we are best friends and it just feels really nice to cuddle with him and talk to him and spend time with him in general.
I actually bump into my ex all the time. He may walk on the other side of the street and then he just yells my name and crosses the road just to come and talk to me. I would like to just walk past but it seems impossible.
I would fall in-love with her again and try to win her back.
"Ma man" :D
@Filip933 lol
Just being honest man, like always. Nothing dodgy tbh :)
@Filip933 I'm trying to not care about her anymore, tbh.
Yeah, that's okay. But you cannot be cold as ice next to her right.. But again it also depends how did you break up, your fault or her etc...
If it was a real relationship and it ended on my mistake or even forcefully ended by other reasons... Then I would be very soft next to her I guess. It's just very tough, especially if you are emotional and mature. :)
I actually was friends with my ex so I wouldn't be tok torn about it, I'd ask how things have been and how her guy was, ask if any time they wanted to swing by they could
be friendly. life is too short to be a bitch all the time.
she doesn't even want to look at me
and sad thing for her is her best friend is like my little sis
also whenever she'd see me and my girlfriend together she'd leave the area xD
I bump into my ex everyday considering the fact that we're still in high school. I recently text him and told him we should attempt to be friends so that it won't be so awkward... he agreed, but we still walk past each other like we didn't spend the whole summer together.
I would say it depends on the ex. most of them I would be excited and literally pick them up with a hug like any old friend, some I'd act happy and take the opportunity to tell them exaggerations about all the great things happening with me, and if there were still feelings I'd lay things out truthfully.
I'd get anxiety, at this point I'm not sure if I still like him or not
Depends on which one it is. The one that I almost married? If I had a drink, I would throw it.
My grad school boyfriend? I would take him for dim sum.
What would I do or what would my boyfriend do? LOL
That loser abused me for the longest. My boyfriend wouldn't allow that dude to be seen by me without an ass whooping.
I will say fuck off left hand, right hand was always here for me and you betrayed me, I can't write with you, can't eat, can't paint, find somebody else to waste their time
well say thank you for opening my eyes and shutting my heart for good so I can be more wise with women and be more careful about my work, family and friends... thanks for showing me the true value of women bitch !
for real!
@abigail13 hell yeah!
"Hi, nice to see you, you look great, take care, bye." or something like that.
I think it's petty to say "that's the point", when most of the time they only say that because they're hurting and if nothing else wanting to hurt you in that moment.
Continue Mission. I wouldn't hide, I wouldn't run, if she tried to talk to me I'd just tell her to go kick rocks and continue with what I was doing.