Most Helpful Girl
You need to give her time. If she wants her stuff back, she'll get it when she's ready to face you.
As for you, you really should consider finding a therapist who specializes in anxiety and cognitive behavioural therapy. At the very least, speak to a doctor. You don't have to suffer with your anxiety alone. You can get real help. Otherwise these problems will keep happening in every relationship you will ever be in.
Most Helpful Guy
your holding onto the relationship. its not about you felt. she probabky knew u were hiding things and waited for you to open up. and instead pushed her away. she was unhappy and ended it. if she was that important to you. why didn't you do something sooner.
best course would be give her some space until she is ready and to stop pressuring her.