My girlfriend dumped me after 5 years. The problem is that I suffer from anxiety and she didn't know the all of the thing I went through. I was scared to tell her what I was going through. The problem was that I started ignoring her because of it. I didn't went out on dates. More or less I was ignoring her. I was her first love and I don't believe that she could do that. She broke up with me and now after a month she is still not responding to my calls or text. I wanted to try and resolve our problems. I met with a common friend and she told me that my ex is still very mad at me. The break up was strange and now she doesn't respond to anything. Unfortunately I don't know what to do. I wanted to marry her and now I don't know what to do. I tried to do no contact but unfortunately I failed. She still has thing at my place and if it's over I want to give them back.
Most Helpful Girl
You need to give her time. If she wants her stuff back, she'll get it when she's ready to face you.
As for you, you really should consider finding a therapist who specializes in anxiety and cognitive behavioural therapy. At the very least, speak to a doctor. You don't have to suffer with your anxiety alone. You can get real help. Otherwise these problems will keep happening in every relationship you will ever be in.0
Most Helpful Guy
your holding onto the relationship. its not about you felt. she probabky knew u were hiding things and waited for you to open up. and instead pushed her away. she was unhappy and ended it. if she was that important to you. why didn't you do something sooner.
best course would be give her some space until she is ready and to stop pressuring her.0