I text my ex a week after we met up 2 weeks ago, saying we want different things. nothing's changed & I hope we find what we want. I need someone that's there for me. When we met he was saying he wanted to see me again, telling some guy that I was his girl when he asked, & saying he sometimes wonders why we split up. We didn't have sex, but cuddled & held hands.
He's also been texting since we split up over a year ago & he still has my body cream by his shower, which he brought with him when he moved upstairs - even though we were broken up.
When we met up 2 weeks ago, he kissed me & said he would text me, but he didn't. I sent him that text & it didn't go through till Wednesday. On Friday he said he's really sorry he had no internet so he couldn't reply." He text again later saying, "I haven't had internet since I saw you. Seriously." I didn't reply, because I didn't think I needed to & he never actually addressed my text, just said that he couldn't reply. Last night he blocked me. Was he annoyed I didn't reply? I think he's very immature for a guy in his 30s. All I wanted was for us to talk, but he can't do that.
Most Helpful Guy
You guys have some misunderstandings which is normal. He didn't do anything wrong if he really had no internet at the time, you should have replayed to him and he should have responded to your earlier massage but you both didn't feel the need to, even though you both want to be together or may be he wants your union more than you do, either way if you think he's worth it, then you should give him a real fair chance. Ask him out explain to him the situation and what you want, solve your miscommunication problem, and try to make a deal with him to achieve better communication, so that you can fairly judge the relationship. I think it's worth it..0
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Most Helpful Girl
You answered your own questions. He's childish and immature. He doesn't know what he wants. If he's in his 30's and acts this way there is no logical to want to pursue him anymore. He's not the right fit for you. Not your loss x1