This was his last message before he finally stopped initiating contact. He finally walked away. Is he really gone? He was my boyfriend of 9 months. We shared a really loving but problematic relationship. We were each other's everything, talk everyday all those 11 1/2 months. I have been reaching out to him by checking up on him but he hasn't initiated. He replies and calls me back. But never initiate. Is my love gone?
"I love you, goodbye" - he wrote this to me before finally cutting me off. What does this mean?
What Guys Said 3
the only explanation for his message:
he doesn't hate you, but (I love you, goodbye) is a tax for that relationship, and not because he wants that relationship to go on.
he thinks he owes you unless you stop trying. he'll forget and start living his life all over.
be bold and find the courage to change things that should be changed and accept that there are some things that cannot be changed.
It's over permanently and completely and you will not remain friends even if he suggests or agrees to it. If he does initiate contact it's just so he can use you as a backup plan till he finds someone else1
What Girls Said 1
If you had an unhealthy relationship odds are good he decided it best to part ways1
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