Hi, everyone. My boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago. He told me that he "fell out of love with me" and didn't see himself marrying me.
We met to talk in person after the breakup, and he said that he didn't like that we bickered and that he felt like he couldn't hang out with his friends. I told him that he didn't give me a chance to fix our problems, but he said he thought it was too late and that his feelings had changed. He said that for right now, he was sure of his decision, didn't want to hurt me, but wanted "something new."
We have been together for three years and have been through hell together -- grad school, health issues, and financial issues.
I love this man with all my heart and really want to win him back. Is there any hope? If so, what should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
Four step process to know for sure:
1. Cook him food, often.
2. Screw his brains out.
3. Don't be naggy, clingy, bitchy, or rude.
4. Ensure you remain visually and sexually attractive to him.
Do this for two weeks. If he hasn't changed his mind then it's over and move on.
(as an aside: if he changes his mind and wants to be with you, don't ever cease doing steps 1-4.)0
Most Helpful Girl
He said he had no more feelings and he doesn't see himself with you :( I'm so sorry you're going through this but I know you will be okay. Hurting is part of growing and moving on unfortunately in this case.
The more you try to win him back will only hurt you more. Never try to keep someone if they don't have feelings for you anymore because it is wasting your time when you could be healing and be with someone else.
I know it hurts you a lot. :( Right now it's time to pick yourself back up and try new hobbies and change for better. Take the things and mistakes you've learned from this relationship and grow from it.
You're still young it seems so so don't worry! You have lots of opportunities ahead of you and plenty of guys to meet!0