If I just write happy birthday, would it sound desperate? I am over him but as a person even people i dont like celebrate my bday makes my day, and i like to make people happy on their special day. I just didn't want him to think i want him at all. It's been 3 months since breakup and i started packing to mve another city 2 hours by flight so i dont even think of getting back together. but i wonder how male mind works.