My ex and I decided to give it another go so we got back together. After we reconciled, we basically had sex with each other but as of yesterday, I found out that he is still seeing someone else even after we got back together. He doesn't know that I know. But I'm really shocked because I never expected this from him out of all people. Now I can't manage to sleep (I stay up all night), eat (hardly even eat once a day now), or even study for school (I'm falling back on my assignments). I decided to go back on my anti-depressants as of last night. But what can I do to help get rid of this pain/ anxiety that's not allowing me to function?
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah, it'll take some time to get back in the swing of things again, you just have to sort of tough it through though
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Most Helpful Girl
okay FIRSTLY, if you guys broke up in the beginning, then you made a huge mistake by reconciling.
SECONDLY, break up with him immediately if you haven't already done so. I know how it feels like, my first boyfriend cheated on me twice and it hurt me so much. It's been 3 months but I'm still not over the heartache yet. Just yesterday night, i cried to sleep thinking about him. So i know exactly how you feel. Honestly, i don't even know what advice i can give you but if you need someome to talk you can drop me a pm (well, because i need someone to talk to too).
And maybe try distracting yourself with things you love. The way i managed to distract myself from him for a while was by finding other guys - i would say, not a good method though.2