So long story short.. I was with my ex for three years, lived together, was serious then we just grew distance last few months and decided to split, it was amicable no screaming or anything I admitted I still loved him etc... anyway we both deleted our fbs.. a well after I moved out of the house he was back on Fb saying he was single. (Which hurt) we have been split a month now and I saw him a week ago to collect mail.. I came in and found he got himself a bulldog (something I always wanted).. and he has completely redecorated the house we shared.. like I never existed and I have to admit that really really hurt, like he has a completely new life within a month and just like I never even was part of his life... why would a man do this? Is this a sign to say actually maybe he never even loved me? Or a sign he's really hurting and trying to pretend I act didn't exist
Most Helpful Guy
Could he be doing it to try and get over it?
Plus no single man would have scatter cushions and flowery wall paper3
Most Helpful Girl
Most likely he is hurting. And he is trying to make the home different. My ex told me a lot of random little stuff reminded him of me. So he got rid of it all. Sort of weird he got the dog you've always wanted. So that itself throws out my idea of trying to forget you... so maybe he is trying to show you what you're missing?1