My husband and 19-year-old are very close. He spends his spare time trying to please her. Recently it rained to the point of flooding horribly in my city. He told me to pick her up from her boyfriend's house. I barely got out safely. Couldn't call him because he was talking to her. Another guy had to guide me out of high water. She gets her way, and is very disrespectful. They talk and text all day. I get to wash his cloths, care for the house, bills, cook, clean. We went to the movies and she and he were texting the entire time; at dinner also. I give up. I miss his attention and love. I'm so lonely. I've expressed my concerns but no change. I saw a message where he told her she comes before me, not to worry. I asked if he wants a divorce, but he keeps saying no he loves me. I'm lonely and confused. Help me.