He dumped me because I have Austim?

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He dumped me because I have Austim?

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We've been dating for two years and just about a month after we got engaged, he finds out that I have autism and he called off the engagement. My heart is broken and I feel so useless. How am I going to be happy again? What should I do?

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Anonymous

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I was going to say, "you also have spelling problems" but then realized that would be mean :/

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- Asker
  
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  No. I am using a phone and sometimes, it didn't spell the right way

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somedudeyaknow
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Maybe he's scared of having children with disabilities. That doesn't make it any better though, does it? If he truly loved you out wouldn't have mattered. Just don't let it get you down, you'll find the right one.

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WinterBlaze
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You just got saved from a lot of pain dear. If he was with you he would have he would have given you much pain. You should hold yourself and wait for the right guy. someone will definitely love you as you are.

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Atton
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The mistake you have made is basing your happiness on the whims of people. Stop doing that and you simply will not find yourself in this same position again.

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SerryJinefeld
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Dick move. I dont understand his thinking. Im sorry that happened to you. But you are better off without him. You will definitely be happy again, especially now that he isn't holding you back and that you are wiser

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UsernameMadness
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Eh, he wasn't right for you. You dodged a bullet right there.

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Whatthefluff | 226 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
Master

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That's awful. I'm so sorry.

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Just4Fun2017
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Screw him if he's that shallow!

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- martinj
  
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  Lol, of course women don't reject men straight out because of Autism which leads to resentment, anger, hatred an violence including mass shootings. And then there is the sick, vile femi NAZIs who find out their baby will be born disabled and abort.
- TheUglyMonk
  
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  You sir are an angry little child who got hurt in the past so you're just lashing out on random people. Don't worry we understand where you're coming from.
- Just4Fun2017
  
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  Yeah he has some severe anger issues and has absolutely no idea what he's talking about.
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- Just4Fun2017
  
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  You're being very inappropriate and rude for no reason. Go fuck yourself.
thaiboxmob
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Stop looking and it will come towards you

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FýrdracaDócincel | 92 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
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What did you do before he found out?

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- Asker
  
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  Nothing. He find out through my siblings
- FýrdracaDócincel
  
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  I find it difficult to believe he called it off JUST because he found out. You must have been getting on his nerves somehow which led to him finding out.
Anonymous

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don't feel sad. He is not good for you.

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SupMates
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Looks like it. What a dick

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Nahid1234
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Sorry to hear

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AbbyHart Xper 3 · Accepted Answer

Don't feel bad, your lucky. Had you actually gotten married before he found out it would have been much worse. Besides, if he's that shallow then he's not eight for you. you just have to wait for the right person to come along and everything will be fine

He dumped me because I have Austim?

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