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First, deal with the pain and learn to accept its over. Cut all communication with them. Coz when you still have some contact with them, it just delays the process of getting over them and moving on. Friendship isn't an option for now. You can maybe later when you're totally over them. Do not sleep with them. It may be hard at first but once you are able to establish that, the pain will subside. Keep yourself busy and work on yourself. Do new things or the things and people you used to chill with or neglected while you were with your ex. Make yourself super beautiful. Attract new people who will appreciate you but don't go on rebounds until you ready for a new man. Enjoy life. Not everyone you lose is a loss.