So I saw this scenario a few days ago and have been thinking it over, debating with my own partner lol and I'd love others opinions.
Complete hypothetical; is it ok to contact their spouse with lewd messages and photos purely out of spite and revenge when you 100% knew they were married but chose to date and sleep with him/her anyway?
Or is it cruel to use destroy someone else's happiness and family when you too knowingly made a bad choice? When the intent behind it is not to let them know their spouse is unfaithful but to get revenge for being used and cast aside?
I'm really interested in the reasons WHY you would choose the option you do too
- Yes, because regardless of my bad choice the spouse should knowVote A
- Yes, because they deserve it for hurting meVote B
- No, the intent isn't to help the spouse but to hurt the cheaterVote C
- No, it's not my businessVote D
- OtherVote E
This is a HYPOTHETICAL on what YOU would do if in this situation.
This is not a real scenario, for me or anyone I know. If you can't read please don't answer, though if you couldn't be assed to read the question properly I doubt you'll read the update 🙄
Most Helpful Guy
I wouldn't want to inflict the emotional damage upon the innocent spouse.
It will probably happen to them at some point, but I'd consider that I'd already done enough damage to them by having an affair with their wife behind their back.
It's yet another great reason not to do this. Innocent people also get hurt. I'd already be ashamed enough of myself without compounding it further.2
Most Helpful Girl
I would never sleep with a married guy and amy pain that came to me if I did, I would deserve. Hurting the innocent spouse is uncalled for and not helping anyone.1