I just feel like an idiot. We were together 6 years :/ he broke my heart completely. He has told me to move on and not wait around but only just told me he will want me back after he's had time to be alone. I feel like a whore now but done it with the intentions of helping me get over him and stop feeling so lonely.
well its not cheating is it if he broke up with me and i am single.
he told me he didn't want me. Told me multiple times to stop waiting around for him and move on. That he wants to be alone and can't put a time frame on how long it will last. I was with him 6 years and he does this to me.
How long ago did you break up? How long ago did you have sex with the other guy?
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what do you mean?
He's right with the merry go round of pain and suffering. He dumped you. Don't get back with him. Or else he'll dump you again and the next one is gonna hurt worse than the first. Don't feel guilty of what you did. You're not his girlfriend anymore. Just live and learn.
Pinay_ako gets it. 😃
@Pinay_ako i feel like he does love me though and is confused. He has said he will want me back but needed this time for himself as he has never been on his own. I feel like I'm waiting in limbo though. Not knowing whether to move on fully or wait for him. We have never broken up before and have had a really happy relationship I'm so confused and hurt :/
Fuck what he feels. He dumped you. He didn't consider what you felt when he pulled the plug. Listen to Dua Lipa - New Rules song. Be strong!
@Pinay_ako your right. I guess I'm just having a real hard time dealing with it all. First relationship and being together since we were 17 feel like I've lost part of myself with the break up.
Well gain it back, Personally we are just random people giving advice and it's all up to you about what you want. He basically pushed you into the arms of another. I have been in similar situations, If it's broken it's broken. You yourself don't need to be going through this you deserve to be happy girl.
When we love someone we tend to give all of our self to them. So when they leave us, they take all of us too. That's why we're hurt and broken. Guess what? We survive. It's his loss now.
Indeed men go through this too