I once had a strictly sexual relationship with a man at one point in our history. We now currently work together and have had a tension between us but since he was married I knew my boundaries and never attempted anything other than casual friendship. Recently he explained that he had been depressed but not wanting to pry I didn't ask as to why. I came into our work and I found myself speaking with him about how he and his wife split over two weeks ago. It came out of left field being told all of this, especially since we haven't been close close previously. I guess my question really is why would he search me out just to tell me something like this? Is it for sympathy, comfort, sex... guys what is your point on view on this?