Most Helpful Guy
Off this impression alone, he seems like a nice guy. You can probably assume that he likes you a lot and that he wants to help. But the cheating hurt him so he'd like to put a stop to the intimacy for now. Take the help, take the friendship, maybe one day you'll get back together.
Most Helpful Girl
keep the close closed what's happened has happened and move forward also it's sign your heart is towards someone else and what you two had is more a lust