Deleting text messages? Is this a red flag? (Page 2)
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definitely a red flag.
Yess it's red flag take measure before it goes out of hands
How do I do that.
How do I approach it differently this time
Sorry but yes, be concerned. Go with your gut.
Thanks. We have instincts for a reason. I will work on my trusting until actual proof is there in Black and White 😕
I caught my "wife" talking and texting with some dude. I called the wireless carrier and asked for all the numbers that she has called and also numbers that called her. Sure enough, it was exactly what I was afraid of. And because the phones were in her name only, she was able to password protect the account so I had no access to it. Guard your heart and prepare for the worst. Start documenting EVERYTHING! If you can type it, save it to a flash drive. Write it down on paper but don't let anyone find it. We are now separated and documentation is helping me tremendously. Good luck and take care of yourself.
Thank you for your input. I'm definitely going to take notes and actually have proof before assuming or taking any action. I'm praying this is not happening, but if it is. I'd rather know now than later.
Red flag red flag red flag red flag red flag
Thanks. That's what my instincts said.. so sad
Girl, go with your gut! Seems fishy to me
l know, it's killing me not to listen to my instincts. Last night we picked up the kids and she didn't know I was in the car she started walking to the car 😕then one of the kids open the door, she seen me and turned around 😧😧 I'm just not going anymore 😢😢
You know this woman?
Big red flag.
Nah nothing to worry about
Yes! Red alert! Abort! Abort!!!
It's my husband 😕😔
Big red flag
I'm hurting so bad right now 😔
Because it has happened more than once. I give you 😥
Shame on you for staying after the first
It's my husband, and if I can't prove it, what do I do. It's just like innocent until proven guilty.
If he won't do a random inspection of his phone then you have your answer
Thanks
Huge Red Flag
Any advice
RED FUCKING FLAG
Thanks. I know, but I hate I know 😔
don't let the phone, run your life
Most definitely
Ask him directly
Sexy
I did. Thanks
Red flag!
I don't know what to do or say
Any advice on how I should approach him and ask him about it this time
Just ask him plainly, "why are you deleting texts from?" You'll see the look on his face. You'll know instantly.
If he gets mad, is that a yes. I don't see myself or anyone being defensive if you were innocent 😩
Yes.
yeah