Most Helpful Guy
I mean you're not wrong... but would you rather he'd had a kid with you just out of respect? Having a kid is such a huge step so if both sides aren't in 100% then the safe option is to hold off until they are. If you view it as a sort of "you owe me" situation then it doesn't sound like it was the right time for a child anyway. For me, if I truly loved someone and they weren't ready for a child then id just accept that. So if having a kid is more important than your love for him then yes, I think breaking up was the best option.
Most Helpful Girl
I can understand your frustration. I'd feel really used and disrespected as well. If he wasn't happy with you wanting kids, he should've told you from Day 1 instead of fucking LEADING YOU ON. That's selfish of him. I don't care if other people tell you you're being the selfish one here but I honestly think you should leave
him. he's the one who didn't zip his fucking pants with other women and now has expecting some other woman to take on the "burden" I'm sorry but you're better off without this asshole.