I fell for someone I shouldn't have and now I need to move on before I get hurt. It sucks bc I really was falling for this guy and I wish the timing was different. However I cannot stop thinkin about him and I feel almost like I'm obsessing which totally isn't me. It's just been years since I've dated or found someone I like as much as I do him. Any tips on how to get him out of my head! (He lives next door so I see him or things that remind me of him often).
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Honestly, It just takes time, I dated a girl for a year, Loved her to bits, Shit breakup, Left me for another dude blah blah blah, And honestly, That shit takes months, I think it was around may, And, Not even lying, Occasionally she slips my mind (Admittedly mostly now its just non pleasent thoughts) But, It will stay in your mind for a while.
I think the best thing you can do, Is just, Try and mix up your life a bit, like, This may sound fucking ridiculous, but where i was living, Just fucking, Every little fucking thing reminded me of her, Like, If i went to a certain par of the house, even dumb shit like opening a wardbrobe was associated with opening the wardrobe that i did with her (Sounds retarded i know but, Literally every fucking thing reminds you of them), Since i moved into my apartment its a lot better, Nothing in my life anymore realy is associated with how it was with her,
I honeslty think the best thing to do is just kind of mix up your life a bit, Get rid of all the things you associated with them, No matter how small or dumb, It helps1