A few days ago him and I hung out but we had no curfew, he dropped me off at 1:30 am. He lives 40 minutes away so he spends a lot of gas money to visit me. My mom freaked out the next day saying I was a bad kid because he brought me home so late we're not allowed to see or talk to each other and that I have to break up with him. She told me if I didn't break up with him that "You need to get the f*** out of my house." Here's the thing that is mind boggling about my situation, I pay my bills, bought my own car, work, watch her kids who are not my biological siblings, buy my own food, and go to college. I don't see what I'm doing wrong, I can't figure it out. He has tried multiple times to sit down with her and tell him about herself but she shuts him down without any given thought.
My boyfriend and I are secretly dating, I got my phone and car taken away so I'm stuck using my laptop currently. Him and I have been talking about getting an apartment together for quite a bit because he feels as if my mother's relationship with me is toxic and unhealthy because she verbally abuses me. I just applied to a job earlier to earn a better pay and she told me I was not allowed to do it because she said so. To sit down with this woman and talk to her about how I feel is nearly impossible, she claims she knows what's best for me but I'm beginning to question that. Does anyone have an idea on what I should do or an opinion? I'm completely lost at this point.