I and my boyfriend broke up because he wants to focus on his career. He starts from zero so he must try so hard, he also works far away from me so he can't take care of me. I was very sad and angry. I know career is very important to a man, but I hope I can be with him in the hard time. Do you guys feel sad when give up on love and choose career? Should I let him focus on his career and reconnect with him in the right time?
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Depends on the guy. There's no generalization. Having said that, a career is very important. So your feelings of sad is normal and understandable, but don't be angry. Just be there for and with him when you can. It won't be like this forever. Tell yourself he's doing it for us and our future. Now, you've already broken up (was this your doing/decision?), so it might be too late. But if you really want to be with him, just talk to him and explain you over reacted. You can still be together now, you just have to accept that you may not get as much time with him as you'd like to have... right now. He needs to focus on his career as well, but doesn't mean he can't still have some kind of relationship with you as well.0