Will he forget about me if he found another?I was applying no contact on him
I highly doubt it. Emotions cause memories. If you both had a good time, he's not forgetting you any time soon
We had a lot of good times but the last 6 months were mostly fighting
I guess it's time to look for new people in my opinion
I just really hope in the future he might get backI did a lot for him and beard him a lot and he was never gopd
I thought I was over him till I saw him today on tinder
I swiped left on him
Well there you go, stop worrying about him and find someone else
Still love him and thought applying no contact for a month then he would miss me
And what is the reason it ended. Was it you or him?
Both, he said he is not gonna waste his life fighting and how we are then I said fine over it is and he said fine then we both agreeThen he messaged 4 times asking for returning the money he paid over the relationship
I would tell him to go screw himself. You do not owe him money while being in a relationship with him
You want to get back with him, even though he is being petty and asking for money back. Really?
Maybe I just want him to want to get backAfter all he did and dumping me in the end and do not feel or appreciate what I did for him
So stop worrying about it and him and go out and have fun and enjoy your life. Why dwell on this asshole who doesn't respect you, doesn't care, and want money from you
I know you are right but he is my first loveSo hard to let go and have a feeling that I am so unworthy to himHe even used the pics I took of him on our trip for tinder
How old are you?
I am 25
I understand it's your first love, but it won't be your last one either. Best way to get over this guy, go out on dates. Have fun, enjoy different guys. See what other guys offer and before you know it, you won't even remember that guy and you will have fun
I really appreciate your words just do not know why I always see him the best till nowMaybe later I will forget him , however it sounds impossible now
Minus seeing him on social sites, do you see him in public?
No not at allMaybe after new year I might go to a place that I would run across him, not sure yet though
Well that will help you out big time then. Are you in the States?
No actually not
Can I ask where you are from?
Oh very cool. That's one of the countries I have been to yet
Maybe you should visit sometimes, where are you from?
Oh it's for sure on my list. I'm from the US, but currently working in Iraq.
Oh cool I really wanna visit US one day too
What's stopping you to visit the US so far?
Busy working and so on but when I have the time I will for sure
Awesome. Where would you start and what do you want to see?
I basically wanna see everytging but I guess I would start at California as I have a friend there
That's a great way to start. I'm originally from San Diego, so I would totally start there as well.
That is really super cool
Where in your eyes is the best place to start off in Sweden?
Definitly Stockholm. big town, awesome nature as well and then you can go all the way to Gothenburg also awesome
Alright. Sounds like a very fun and interesting adventure. Best time of the year to go?
I would say in summer around june- August do you can catch a sunny relatively good weather instead of snowing or raining
Alright very cool. Will probably after my contract is done around March or so
Already? After only 3 weeks?
k maybe i am wrong. who dumped who? how long was the relationship? how long ago was the break up? was there any contact after?
Both, he said he is not gonna waste his life fighting and how we are then I said fine over it is and he said fine then we both agree. We were together for 2 years and we broke up 11th of sepetmberThen he messaged 4 times asking for returning the money he paid over the relationship
oh wow he wants a refund? oh hell no. if I was you, i'd be so turned off with a guy like that. I won't want him back
Yeah he does.I did not want him back till I saw him today on tinderI guess I just want him to want to be back then I say no
You miss the idea of him during the good old days. It's been 3 weeks no contact, hence the emotions were still raw but now it has died down and that's why you missed him.
I wish I can stop missing him cause I am sure he does not miss me backI have over 100 match on tinder and do not really feel like moving on
See, you should not hold on to someone who already let go. Let him go, cut him off cold turkey. No buts, no ifs. Actually if you can block him on tinder, do that so you don't need to see what he's doing or who he's dating or seeing. You have to erase him off of you even if you don't want to. YOU HAVE TO MOVE ON. The more he sees he's losing you, if he cares, he will miss you if he gaf or love you. Be of high value. Do not chase him or obsess of what he's thinking or feeling. Think about yourself. You are hurting yourself. Give other guys the chance to know you, to love you which the other guy took for granted.
Thank you, I will try to follow your advice as much I canJust hurtful to feel easily replaced
We all been there before, rejected, abandoned, replaced. But we always rise up. Seriously do it.
Thanks so much for the supportDid this person regrets what she did to you?
he came back. but my door is closed. you left me, you want me, now it's my turn to disappear.
Hope the same happens to me and I feel the same about it at that pointBut I guess he will just be with bitches and forget me
how about if you do you and forget him? trust me you'll get there :) be strong
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