he hates me sooo much but I didn’t do anything for us to break up. and it been almost two months since our breakup.
Most Helpful Guy
There are some possibilities here. Im going through the SAME shit. This is in order of possibility. Number one is most likely:
1. He is still in love with you but in denial because you hurt his feelings
2. He broke up with prematurely without thinking it through. Now he regrets it but is scared or hurt
3. You have a good reputation.. even among his friends. Most likely people like you. They think you are a good person. So he is trying to save face and justify why he hates you so he doesn't feel stupid.
4. He is simply hurt and in a lot of pain. He may mean it when he says he hated you. But that represents a moment and not forever.2
Most Helpful Girl
He talks badly about you because he is immature and not healthy mentally. He doesn't know how to move on or deal with the regret of his actions, but he's too prideful to admit it. He misses you and the relationship you had, but doesn't respect you enough to fix it
I immediately broke up with my ex when I found out he cheated on me yet he called me all kinds of names and was extremely rude to me about it. Two months later I found out he still hadn't told anybody I dumped him and that he was still acting like we were together. He's lost weight, hasn't been sleeping, and looks like shit. I ran into him last night and he was trying to make me jealous by bringing a new girl with him to the club I go to (he used to work there, but quit when I dumped him) and she is much less attractive than me. Poor girl is a rebound and he was too busy staring at me all night to pay any attention to her. Then he had the nerve to intentionally bump into me on the way out
Guys who are too immature to admit they messed up a relationship with you will try to blame you and take out their emotional pain and regret on you
The best thing is for you to move on. He's not worth your time and he's only going to cause more drama and problems in your life if you try to keep him around. Prove that you're better than him by moving on with your life and finding someone who will treat you respectfully rather than talking bad about you1