He'll get bored*
*on a delay
he broke up with me. he never gave me a solid answer when i asked him why he wanted to break up.
You deserve someone more mature than him. Be thankful you're not together and just be nice when you see him just not flirty nice.
yeah i do..
If you want him back in your life, you need to understand why you broke up and whether you will encounter the same problem if you get back together.If that is what you really want, I think you should take the bull by the horns. Ask him if you two can talk somewhere private, then tell him how you feel. It may not work but at least you will know that you gave it your best shot and maybe then, you can put this to rest.
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honestly do you think before you reply or? if i tell someone i love them, my feelings will be there. especially considering he is my first love.
Then stop complaining it get back together.
no he left me
Then he is convinced you did something horrible that caused him to leave you, and he's still pissed.
Trust me, when I say I didn't do anything to him, I didn't. I would own up to my mistakes. His reasoning for breaking up was that I fell too fast, but he said he loved me first? He slowly started ignoring me until I forced him to tell me whats going on, he just didn't want to be with me anymore.
Fuck him, he's lost and confused. Let him go and don't put too much thought about what he says.
Sounds like the feelings either weren't the same or he cheated. But you know what? You dont realize how much someone matters until they are gone. Maybe he didn't like you until after the breakup.
@Apope16 you're right man, but how could this guy like her after the fact that HE dumped her and he is talking bad about her. If what you're saying is true he is immature
@Apope16 That happened to me. After an ex broke up with me I found out through mutual friends he had been seeing someone else. He then tried to turn it all around on me. Acting like I was the one at fault when I assure you, I couldn't have been nicer to him (when we were dating). He even tried to turn some of my friends against me (that I had known since hs and he had only met months before) by claiming I was "crazy" and we weren't even dating when he got with the other girl. We were.
@Nyx_85 im so sorry. That just happened to me. She contacted all our mutual friends to humiliate me and talk bad. She broke a window in our apartment and when I came back blamed me. We lived together broken up because the lease was broke. She call friends in her separate bedroom and speak loudly about how i was horrible etc. It hurt me so much. Then shed walk around half naked to make me jealous. By the end she physically was beating me by punching me in the face. Then she said its my fault because I make her that way. Anywayz... people who are guilty of shit try to blame people. In the end... if they truly love you.. they feel like shit... it a guilt that cuts deep.
@Apope16 Damn that's awful sorry. Was she mentally ill? My ex had bipolar and I think his mental illness caused some of his behavior. But she sounds like she was crazier.
@Nyx_85 i honest to god think she's bipolar. I dont know though.
@Apope16 It's possible. Or maybe Borderline Personality Disorder. People with it tend to have very intense emotional outbursts, violent outbursts, roller coaster emotions (love you one second then hate you the next), and very rocky relationships. I don't know if this was true for your ex but they are also prone to self harm.I'm not against anyone with a mental illness but being with someone like that (especially someone who won't get proper help) is exhausting. Things can go from great to horrible at a drop of a hat depending on their mood. My ex claimed he moved on because I wasn't paying him enough attention, which was bs. He was the one causing these really stupid fights and then saying he needed 'space'. He got angry at me one time because I didn't come see him when she was having one of his 'down days'. I asked if he wanted company and he said "No I need to be alone". So I left him alone. What was I supposed to do? He told me it was a test to see if I cared. So many mind games.
But the worst thing (for me) was him texting me after we were over and telling me all the stuff he was doing with her and rubbing it in my face. Saying things like "I'm taking her to this really expensive restaurant tonight because she's worth it. Unlike you".
- When only about a week before this he was telling me how in love with me he was and crap. How these people's brains work is beyond me.
When ex's come back, it's cause they miss you & they probably aren't getting any from anyone else. So they assume you're the next best thing. And also will be easy to get sex from since you have already done it with them
Ex's are ex's for a reason. And honestly if two people break up. If one person is saying bad shit about the other. It's best if the victim keeps to themselves. Cause it makes the other person look like the problem
What do you mean an opportunity that he missed when we were together?
New job, new girl, new apartment.
who said we were friends lmaoo
Then brush him off.
Then why doesn't he just tell me that. I've sent him an i miss you paragraph? Like last month.
He is being passive aggressive.
How could have possibly hurt him when he broke up with me. He’s the one who switched up on me, ignoring anything I should be the one who’s so angry.
Maybe he hurt you without realizing it