AS a girl you have 10 guys in a room and 9 of them are hitting on you and clearly want you... but 1 is not... The 1 that is not will be the 1 you are the most interested in and want. not the 1s u can easily have
Absolutely love this. And that's what I hope for. How long do you think I should wait?
HOw long has it been. and why did you break up
And again totally agree with this one! Plus my ex still has feelings for me so I do hope the no contact will work
It will but you can show no weakness.. what so ever.. in fact talk to another guy... as a girl... You hold all the cards.. You can easily get with another guy much faster than he can with a girl
It's been two weeks since I'm no contact with him and he broke up with me because I said some really hurtful things to him and we had a horrible argument and he couldn't forgive me. Basically he broke it off over just words. But he couldn't let me go and gave me " let's be friends " bs and I said no I can't
Talk to another guy to make him jealous?
Your right you can not... Guys and Girls can never be friends... ever not heterosexual males and females... Has he tried to contact you at all? As a hetro male... There is not a sigle women out their that I just want to be friends with.. Guys are not looking for friends.
Yes... shit talk to 2 or 3 guys... act like he ain't shit and dont exsist... and do not what so ever call or text him. at all dont once u do its game over..
No he hasn't. I feel he's still deeply offended by what I said and thinks we wouldn't work. It says so but doesn't really mean it. I just feel he wants me to do some beggings and I did ask him to give us another chance and I apologized many times for everything I said but he said I broke him inside and he doesn't want a relationship either with me or with someone else. So I left and said don't contact me unless you change your mind and he didn't really want to let me go, said he needed me blah blah he even cried. Yet he didn't want anything romantic between us.
Omg I freaking love you! You are so so right! My ex's ego is so overblown I know he will hate it so much!
OK is he gay is he talking to another girl are u still putting out for him
Its a gift and a curse... I know how to throw game... to women... I just telling you stuff I would never say in RL... But sexually the women controls the power... Ultimately a guy will want to have sex that is our instinct as males to reproduce... Women want a man that treats them well and can provide for them in the long run.. Sex is not number 1 for women. Its a added bonus but not number 1... Thats y you can get a guy much easier than he can get a girl...
Lol no he's not gay and there's no other girl he's talking to. At least that's what he says but I think it's actually true cause before I went no contact we were still together 24 /7, he texted me all the time even though tried to act cold and distant but texted and texted and texted. Said he still wanted me sexually but didn't want it right now. Yeah right because that's what I told him in the past and he repays me with the same coin. But I wasn't serious I was kidding
Guys dont just stop talking to girls and give up potential blowjobs or sex with out their being a back up... trust me.. specially after few weeks...
So do you think he has another girl?And he didn't stop talking to me. I did.
I myself just started dating a new chick... I told her and specifically have been taking this 1 slow... after serveral dates.. and 3 weeks now... She asks me... If I am attracked to her.. because she figured I would have made a move by now... And normally I would have but this time I want a relationship. This was the first girl that has ever called me out for waiting or not making a move... I laughed when she did... of course the next time we chilled We did shit and I made a move but making her wait on me instead of the guy waiting on the girl in most situations NOW i control eveything...
You are just like my ex lol he now waits for me to beg him sleep with me. And this thing between us was just so perfect, when everything was great he told me he had never felt that way before with anybody and I knew he didn't lie. I could see it and feel it without any words. But now he wants me to beg him
OF course he does... lol... He wants to be wanted... wouldn't you... I know this cause I have been with many women.. Here is the key... I only had SEX with women I loved and cared about... I got blowjobs from prolly 100 women... and only had sex with 5 women and dated them for years...
What he and I had was beyond galaxies I swear. And I know he wants it just as much as I do but he started this freaking campaign and I should have either followed or left. I tried for some time and then I said baby I give up if you don't want to be with me anymore I'm leaving. Find me if you change your mind. So it's been two weeks and all he has done was posting sad songs about empty nights in his Facebook and acts all depressed. But doesn't contact me
There u go... and the more he does that the less you like him... over time u will c
On his fb. Sorry I'm making so many typos
i dont care about typos lol or spelling or grammar... what about his FB
He's posted a love song.Plus depressive things. He makes it look like he misses me but never sends a message
how long ago and how far apart and frequent are the posts
The song was posted a week ago and the first days after I left he was rather frequent, while I kept quiet and then I got his friend texting me and wondering why I don't post anything, I said I had no inspiration so right after that my ex went silent too and didn't post for another week.
I would block him on FB that will really piss him off
lol he'd go nuts. He's so sensitive ya know
Thats the goal... right... trust me... thats your best move.
But what if he thinks I'm affected by his silence and like it's my attempt to get his attention?
if you wanted to get his attention you would message him and say hey.. or what not thats the opposite of getting some 1s attention trust me.
That will get his attention as in he will wonder y and want u more... but he will not see that u r doing that specifically for that reason
Okay I can block him but what if he or his friend start messaging me asking why? Ignore him?
he won't be able to message u if u block him and if his freinds message u block them 2 or better yet... tell the friend cause u like him instead lol that is even better.
Hahahaha you are so great omg! But his friend is a grown ass woman in her 50s lol
Ok thats just fucking weird AF
How old is he and u
I'm 25 and he's almost 30
Jesus meant to say 28. I'm 28.
Uh yea... him having a 50 something year old women as a friend is not right something wrong their.
They are both into poetry. He said she was in love with him and offered herself but he said hell no. And he was the one introducing me to her. No idea why he did that but ever since we split she's been trying to get close to me.
Ok even weirder... im starting to really think dude is gay
Do you have google hangouts? We could talk there if you want I will tell you some more
i think so 1 sec... let me check just never really use it i guess rofl
yes what u just need email right
Yes. I need your email to find you there.
message me on here ill give u email dont wanna post it and then get 10000 emails from random people
I just did but it says I have to be level 2 to be able to send you a message :(
lol i can't send you 1 cause your annonomous what is your name on here
I don't remember lol wait please I'll check
or post ur email if u dont care and ill message u
can't go to ur page to message u no search u have to post under that name so i can click the link
I care I don't want to get spammed either lolCan you delete your own message here? I can't see the delete button.Try to find me by my name please
There is no search to search for names like u can click my name and it goes but no search box.. I have to click ur name and send u a message just make a post or ask a question under your real name not annonomoys so i can click the name and send a message
a new post like \
But I already started the thread as an anonymous. How can I add a reply using my name on here?
I just started following you. Can you see me now?
yup sent message
You see it's not exactly a trick for me. I'm trying to save the relationship because he's just confused so I'm giving him time to experience what life is like without me.
If he is so confused, move on. You would be choosing an action (or inaction) in hopes of manipulating his behavior. You deserve to be someone's first choice, he should KNOW that he wants to be with you. Anything besides that is distinction or unhealthy.
No contact means moving on in a way. And much better than begging and pleading him to reconsider in my opinion. Let him decide on his own. And yes I don't want to be his second choice and again the no contact rule will help me or him see the light.
I love it that they always come back. I do hope it's really always the case
Were you the one who did the break up?
he hurt me.. it was something we couldn't come back from.. but yeah I did end it
See what happens if u go for wrong guys
@Cowboy6666 it was 6 years ago lol..
Lol it means I should meet u n still I have chance with u? ;)
@Cowboy6666 I haven't been in a relationship since and I'm not exactly looking for one lol..
I should talk to your parents :p for our engagement
@Cowboy6666 hahaha... good luck with that
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Did she come back to you?
In the past she came back to me yeah
How long did you stay no contact before she came back? Did she initiate it?
I don't really remember it that well...
Ok it is probably long in the past. The main point is that you did make her back with the no contact rule so it works. Thanks.
Thank you so much for your reply. Gives never hope. Can you please give more details. How long did it take him to come to you?
umm it took him a few monthshe was the one who broke up with me and i didn't write anything to him and he started texting me only after a few months n we started dating n then get together again
Thank you! That's so great that you got back together again. What was the reason for the break up?
Love is sweater the second time
Nah, too many and you end up the fool.
Too many of who/what? And why should you necessary end up being the fool?
Times taking an ex back. You don't necessarily always end up the fool. But if your true and loyal you gonna end up the damn fool. That's flawless logic.
I agree that they never truly appreciate being true and loyal but for some reason we love them lolAnyway time is relative. I heard guys usually need a month or two to sort their feelings out.
I'd say ya prolly heard right for the most fella's but not all.
It's also about the ego/pride thing right? Some guys are too full of themselves and always wait for us to make the first move to reconciliation.
Only to see if that's what's wanted on your end or if it's just wanted by us.