So my ex of three years broke up with me. There was a fight which started because he comparied me to his ex (in bed). I was very upset and said he should go be with his ex then. I apologized for what I said but he broke up with me tell me how I broke his heart and he could not view me the same. The next day he messaged me asking how I slept. I was willing to work on the issue. I asked why he didn't want to. He told me it is not that he didn't but he can't. The more I am away the more upset I am at him. I am upset because I justified things I don't most guys would say to their girlfriend. Example "I could have sex with others if I wanted but I choose not to." I accepted female friends. The females were not the problem but him ignoreing how I felt when I tried to tell him. Like I did not like him hanging out with his female friend till 3am. He would just turn it around tell me I don't trust him and overthink. Somehow what I said about him going back to his ex which I apologized was worse. So bad he couldn't even think of trying to work past the problem.
Most Helpful Guy
Don't really see why you want him back. He doesn't compromise and your comment you made about going back to his ex was brought on by him being disrespectful and rude to you bringing up his ex in comparison to you. Good riddance.0
Most Helpful Girl
You deserve better. He sounds very manipulative. Relationships with people like that only get worse not better. And if you're not okay with him hanging out with a girl till 3 am that makes complete sense. The only things open after midnight are legs and the E. R.0