Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 4 years. We are getting married in 2 weeks. I went to check my email today and he left me a message and this is what it said
>>aight this is my issue is this how we are gonna be even if we get married. you no I can't take only getting laid like twice a month this sh*t ain't gonna cut it. do you realize in the month of July you only touched my d*** with your hands and mouth 1 time maybe 2 ridiculous. listen your gonna have to start cleaning cooking and f***ing a little more if its not gonna be any better we might as well not go any farther with this<<<
I must say that we had sex more than that. I try my damn best to keep the house clean and dinner on the other hand I haven't made in a couple days because I have been trying to finish up the wedding plans. Now I just don't know.
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I don't know what roles the two of you assigned each other to keep the household going, that is a separate discussion from sex.
While many divorces end with very sterile reasons (ie unreconcilable differences), when surveyed afterward, about 90% of people claim that sex was either the reason, or one of the reasons they ended their marriage.
Sex is major part of marriage, so if what he wants doesn't line up with what you want, that is reason enough to not move forward and get married.1