This girl I like just opened up to me about how she was raped 4 days before her birthday just this past year January and I don't know what to say or do I'm so upset and I just wanna comfort her but I feel like I don't know her enough and I just wanna beat the shit out of whoever did it... What do, do I try and comfort her or change the topic or what?
Most Helpful Girl
Women tell that info to those they trust the most. She has to really like and be comfortable with you. Usually she wants comfort but everyone wants comfort in different ways. So flat out ask her what can you do to make her feel better and what she wants to do about the situation.0
Most Helpful Guy
Shit dude... She told you she was raped, which must be a really hard thing to do, so she must trust you, or at least she believes she knows you enough for her to open up to you. This is like an open invitation to comfort her and show her that you really care about her. Don't say you like her. Ask her how many other people she has told maybe?0