I'm sorry to have to ask anonymously. This girl I dated for years treated me with a lot of contempt, (yes, I know I have my own issues for allowing that for so long) cheated on me towards the end, and broke up with me in an extremely disrespectful way, leaving me a bloody wreck of a human being. Basically used and abused me. I'm healing now, but you can imagine that I've been having to deal with an unreal amount of indignance and anger over how I was treated. I haven't tried to express my anger to her (she'd only show more contempt anyway) or take any sort of revenge, although God knows I've wanted to. I never would, except that it's very likely that I'll see her again, sooner or later - plenty of mutual friends. We'll be at the same party or get-together eventually. I've wondered how I'll react when that happens. What I hope I'll have the guts to do is throw a glass of cold water in her face and leave. Don't know if I'd say anything. The question is; is that totally wrong of me? God knows she deserves much worse than that. I don't know if throwing water on someone is legally assault - so obviously in that case I couldn't, and would have to come up with words to say that would have the same effect. Would you do this if you were me? If you were my friend, would you realize she must deserve it, or look down on me for having done something stupid?
(I anticipate that someone will say that I should just ignore her when I see her, and just act like she isn't there. I've thought about that a lot, and I can't do it. I really can't. It's either do something/say something, or just plain leave. And I don't want to leave, either.)
Most Helpful Girl
If I was your friend and knew exactly what she did to you I would join you but throwing the whole table but we have to face the reality this would not make you feel better because this isn't the best form of revenge. what you should do and that is the best form of revenge be a hunk that girls cannot stop looking at. I mean talk the talk and walk the walk. In other works not just the physical app are acne but the personality and the sharpness in your tongue that would say you are a loser for not being able to keep this hunk in your arms because now I got them girl gawking at my awesomeness. that my friend is the best satisfaction you can ever have from a narcissist. cause god knows and sees everything and you will meet the love of your life soon but you got to get through some painful stuff first like her and getting over her.1
Most Helpful Guy
I posted somewhere else but I'll tell you my wife came to me told me she wanted to divorce basically took and sent it to get a lawyer got me kicked out of my own house with clothes on my back come to find out I was f****** my best friend of 25 years and now I am in the same emotional shell while they lived The Partridge Family Life in my house and drive my car and they with my kids first and foremost I'm a good father so no matter what demons I had grown in my head about her she's good to go. My friend on the other hand has serious concerns if I ever run into him in the near future before I have time to repair my soul. But I'll tell you what I did my wife has cheated on every person she's ever been with I tracked down nine of them she's cheated with and on last night a couple which she worked with and I put the in on a page told the entire story and we had a Jerry Springer bash moment on her last night that was pretty uplifting. Point is unlike you she thinks she got away with this scot-free I can get over most things but letting her get away with everybody thinking she's a good person that s*** ain't happening if anything I will destroy her integrity0