Long story short my (bf) has broken up with me twice before for different reasons gone and done his own thing and then has come back to me and I've been stupid enough to take him back. First time he did it to my face, then by text and now after spending a week off together he has vanished. He had a bad day at work and I wasn't well by day two he hasn't asked me how I was so I made a sarcastic comment but nothing bad. Since then he was ignorant for a day or two and the last time I got was when I asked if he was feeling any better... "Na, not really. Just need some time alone x" I agreed as I assumed it was for a day or two but 3 weeks later and nothing, my stuff is still at his so it's very awkward. I've messaged him mum who said he hasn't said anything to her?
But now our mutual friends aren't even responding to my texts? How should I handle getting my stuff back? As this is the third time he's dropped me, do I walk i and walk out or do I confront him? Heartbroken again! What's a waste of time!
For the guys answers - I don't want to be walked over, what would make me appear as a strong women!
For the girls answers - Have you ever had anything like this happen, and what happened next?
Most Helpful Guy
Go pick your stuff up, and be done with it, no talking to him, just pick your stuff and leave, in short move on, be with some one who values you9
Most Helpful Girl
3 times already whoaaa girl his sings where thee since his first time
Leave him forever move on.
When a guy ghosts you once he will do it again
When a guy cheats on you once he will do it again
When a guy hits you once he will do it again
When a guy rape you once he will do it again
My point is when a guy does a bad thing to his girlfriend his signs are there for you to notice and to leave don't have hopes and say " oh next time he will do better, or he promised he won't do it again..." NO it's a lie and you are the fool
Leave him and find a good guy!2