So I just sent these to someone. I love him more than anything but lately, he's been so busy we never talk anymore and I just don't know what to do. Being in a relationship with someone who treats me like a queen yet is so so distant all the time is absolutely tearing me apart. This is the last thing I want to do to him, but I honestly don't know what else to do. He lives 6 hours away and between everything he has going on, sometimes he can only talk for 3-4 minutes a day. It's so hard and I want to be with him so so badly but I just can't keep hurting myself by being with him. And I feel like when I'm so far away, I can't support him the way I want to and honestly just feel like a distraction or a burden in his life that he has to "deal with". He is absolutely broken hearted right now. He bought me a ring and he told me that, but it's honestly gotten to the point where being in this relationship, or even talking to him anymore, makes me want to cry. I love him, but I just dumped him. Do you think this is self-sabotage or what.. ? I just didn't know what to do.
Broke up with someone I love?
What Guys Said 7
It sounds like you don't understand why you are doing this. Love endures even if you are far and distant. My girlfriend is going through some tough things that she needs to get through and she has been struggling for years now. I barely get any needed romantic time with her, we do so some things still but it is hard for her and me. I hurt so much at times but I know it is worse for her. So I go to God for strength to help me be selfless and put her needs above my selfish needs (but not my health, mental needs, etc.).
Push on through there is a reward in the end.1
If he loves you he will come back one day1
What Girls Said 5
I'm sorry but I'm going to be brutally honest with you. This words are familiar, cliche and cringeworthy. This is what every teenagers seems to write. 10 years from now, when you read this, you gonna cringe too. Nevertheless, I still wanna know what's his reply. ✌😁2
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