am I right to just be single?
Most Helpful Guy
Stop trying to fix people. That never works. Letting people with problems into your life just lets them mess up two lives instead of one. If a guy is troubled, do what psychologically healthy women do -- keep him out of your life. You might consider talking to a professional about how you can break this pattern of behavior. I did and it helped me a lot.
Most Helpful Girl
There's nothing wrong with opting to just be with yourself for a while. It'd actually probably do you some good to guard yourself like that for a little bit, so take the time now to make a little checklist for the next person you find yourself catching feels for. If they don't hit everything on that list, don't give them any of your heart.