He gave me several chances and I screwed it up.
I can't help what I did, but I really want him back.
He's found someone else.
But ultimately I just wanna show him how much I care about him.
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I honestly think that the best thing you can do to show him how much you care for him is simply to tell him that you hope he'll be happy and that if he ever needs you, you'll be there for him. It may be hard as hell, but by being selfless like that you're putting the idea in his mind that you care about him more than yourself- and that hopefully should show that you won't waste another opportunity.
Like everyone else has said though- pushing to get him back while he has a girlfriend will not endear him to you, it will just make him think you're selfish (regardless of the good intentions) Who knows- he might think that because of the wasted chances you don't REALLY want him, you just don't want her to have him so that won't make him want you back.
I know what you're going through and I wish you all the best. You never know, if it's meant to be he'll find his way back. There are so many posts on here recently talking about exes coming back and it CAN happen (I know I'm silently praying for it) but most of them say that you HAVE to be willing to completely lose them for them to come back. Focus on yourself, work on any issues you may have had in the relationship and try to be happy on your own. That way if he doesn't come back at least you know that you will be okay and you CAN be happy without him.
Hope everything works out.1