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How can you get over cheating?

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Lumberman53

find someone else
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- lolo_stark
  
  So of he cheated on me long time ago and I just discovered it... There's no way back?
  
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- Plowboy
  
  First of all how would you find out now?
  Second of all you should not trust him now because if he did it once he will do it again but probably so you would never find out
  
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- lolo_stark
  
  Well.. He told me.
  And it was like 2 years ago... He was feeling so guilty and had to talk about it to get it off his shoulders.
  In these 2 years we were fine.. And everything was going okay.. Now I don't know what to do... Should I wash my hands off and walk away? .. Should I make him pay now for something he did 2 years ago?
  Or should I respect his honesty coz we all do mistakes and keep working on this relationship?
  
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- Plowboy
  
  Revenge is not an answer, he knows he did wrong and it is good he told you.
  Let it go but tell him he has to ern your full trust again because trust is more important if you both want to spend the rest of your life together, but be careful guys can lie to women and play if off well.
  Words should never mean anything, he should show you.
  at least he didn't get the woman pregnant
  
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- lolo_stark
  
  Yeah.. Let's see what's he gonna do about that.
  Don't think it's gonna work out good anyways.. I just don't want to feel that guilt that I didn't give him a chance or something!!
  I'm so confused.
  
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- Plowboy
  
  You will be ok
  Even If it does not work out with you both
  Good luck and keep your head up
  
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- lolo_stark
  
  Yeah :)
  
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Most Helpful Girl

kaylaS91

Well.. your options are:
-talk about it with your partner. See if it was a 'mistake' on their end and if they do genuinely wish to be with you or not.
-open the relationship (never done it myself or heard about others doing that but.. in a purely hypothetical sense, I guess it would be an option?)
-end things.

In terms of 'getting over' it as in not letting it lurk in the back of your mind- that's not possible for most. The hurt will always be there. Over time and attempts being made to actually find closure of some sort with your partner, if they're still around, will make the thoughts weaker and less and less prevalent but I'd imagine that they'll always be there.
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What Guys Said 3

SalahMadani

Cheat
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- lolo_stark
  
  I'm not gonna even reply to that.
  
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- SalahMadani
  
  Believe me it works
  
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kinku1

You can forgive but it is so hard to trust again.
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soufkalifornia

One day at a
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What Girls Said 1

Anonymous

leave your partner
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