I kissed this guy a couple times. I have a boyfriend. He didn't mean anything to me. So he got upset because I didn't want to do anything. So he said he was going to tell him. I got him to stop because I told him I told my boyfriend. So we stopped talking and I stupidly started missing him. So I messaged him on Facebook because hiss phone was broken. I talked to him a lot and said a lot about what I felt and did. I got him mad again by telling him I couldn't do this again. Now he is saying he will send my boyfriend all the messages because he saved them. he said the only thing that will stop him is if a have sex with him. What should I do? I know he will tell him and send him all the messages if I don't do it. I'm so scared because I love my boyfriend so much and would be so upset iff he found out about my stupidity. What do I do? Please help
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The best option is to tell your boyfriend the truth. I GUARANTEE if you don't tell your boyfriend and elect to sleep with this loser, he will find another way to blackmail you. Who's to say that 'if' you sleep with him, he won't tell him anyway? I think it's better to own up to what happened, be honest and prepare for the repercussions. We all make mistakes and the hardest part is to take ownership and learn from it. The guy who is blackmailing you is a grade A piece of sh*t and I wouldn't trust him at ALL.
Tell your boyfriend, plead complete remorse and let him know that it will never happen again. As for the loser, don't talk or communicate with him again. You owe him nothing and the sooner you get him out of your life, the better.