Every time I start liking a guy I always end up getting hurt. It took me 3 year to get over one of my ex’s and he wasn’t even worth it. We were only together for a month and a bit and then he dumped me for one of my friends but he was still speaking to me for a few months until I noticed that me he doesn’t like me. He’s just using me. A few months after I started speaking to this other guy. He used to always make me laugh and he made me like him but I found out he spoke to other girls too and I wasn’t the only one. Now I have been speaking to a guy for a year and a bit and I really really like him and he likes me too but I told him we can’t be anything more then friends because I didn’t wanna get hurt. He’s always there for me and makes me happy and smile. A few weeks ago I hurt him and told him we can’t be anything more then friends and we haven’t spoke since then but I really regret it and miss him but I don’t wanna get hurt again. I just feel like he puts in the effort to be with me and I don’t because I don’t wanna get hurt but I really like him too.
Why can’t I be happy with having to like a man I’m my life?
What Guys Said 3
You are lacking the 50/50 theory. Yes, i came up with it. You want a man, that is up to YOU. plus, aren't you a little young to be wanting a "man"... just date around, get some experience.
Then when you want a Man, you will be a Woman, and i don't have to teach it to you.
Believe me... dating is shittier when you grow older.0
No sex before marriage0
Well after what you told him he will move on soon so make your move while you can!0
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