So I have been with her since we met in HS. Its been 10 Years I've been with her. Our relationship has been through many obstacles good and bad. We have a child that is now 8. My mind has not settled down about coming down to my knee and popping that ring out. I feel like I am in a corner cause my mind has got me crazy about my life and what I should be doing. I can't trust her for I heard many things she's done behind my back. These made me do many bad decisions and has got me very confused. I feel like its not a relationship but just comfortable way of living. In reality its not even comfortable. We have lack of communication which puts us with lack of interest in mind and body. I just feel like there is better in life that I can have and really grow and most importantly be happy about.
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If you are unhappy and there is no way of improving, get out. There is no way your kid will have healthy relationship behavior later in life if you guys never communicate and secretly resent each other. However, this only if you tried your best to improve the situation. Try and fix what you believe is going wrong. Give it your all. Not just a week but for e. g. a month. Then you know you tried your best and won't regret your decision. Just walking out without trying would be a bad example for the kid too.0