Most Helpful Girl
You don't for a very long time. You need to heal and you don't need to job up into trouble again. Learn fro. Your mistakes from the divorce and don't do it again. That person was your life partner. You both made your vows. One or both of you chose to break them. That is not something to take likely. Go to counseling and start there. Then decide.
Most Helpful Guy
My Mom told me after the divorce that she had known my wife was cheating and with whom and for how long. She said the guy had even made a pass at my sister. I was livid at her for letting me go through so much misery when if she had said something I would have checked it out and divorced that woman instead of trying to make it work for so long