I dated my boyfriend for two and a half years so he has some of my things. He has a girlfriend and I'm about to move away for college. We've been broken up for a little over two months but I'm not sure how to go about getting each others' things back. I still have feelings for him and even though he has a girlfriend (who he claims he doesn't like) I don't know how he feels about me. I don't want it to be awkward or make it seem like I'm completely done with him and by getting my things back, I'm over him, I'm not. I'm still hoping he'll come back. Any ideas/suggestions?
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Call or email him. Be honest and direct with him. If he has things that belong to you then he should give them back and vice versa. Maybe he could drop your stuff off or maybe he could leave it somewhere when he is not around. Exchanging things in person is tough so be careful with that. And don't feel too bad about the break up. The guy still misses you too. I find it highly unlikely that he doesn't care about you. By him getting another girlfriend and claiming he doesn't like her...its all because he wants to be distracted from thinking about you! He is not over you. To date someone for 2 years and to be over them completely in a few months is extremely hard to do. Stay positive and take care!0