So this seriously is hurting me the more it goes on. I have been best friends with this guy for 2 and a half years. We have always been super close talk about anything & everything I have trusted him with everything. We could kiss & be perfectly fine & normal! We shared dirty pics and stuff ahah sounds wrong but oh well just being honest lol Well a few weeks ago he asked me out to the movies we went & then we hung out at his house & we both knew someday that IT would happen well it did! He wanted to me stay the night with him & cuddle with him & all that but I needed to go home its not that I didn't wanna stay with him because I did! Mind you he has liked me & wanted more with me all the while we have known each other! Well we were fine a few days after good morning texts and I just knew we were gonna start dating! Well then he started getting distant late last week & then over that weekend. Well he apparently met a girl he has known her for just over a week says he likes her a lot but he doesn't wanna hurt me or lose me. He has always said how he has wanted more with me but when he got the chance he ruined it. I just need to know what he is thinking & why the hell he did this to me . He said he didn't wanna hurt me but he did hardcore =[ I feel like things with this new girl will fizzle out & he will come back to me but I don't know =[
Why did he do this & will he come back?
What Guys Said 1
He might be feeling a real sense of rejection. It may have been tough for him to take. He'll come around.0
What Girls Said 1
personally...i thing that you hurt his feelings and he is using this girl to make you jealous...it is an ego thing with men...it was just too soon for him to find a new girl...that is why I think he is trying to make you jealous...i really think you hust his feelings...there is no feeling worse than rejection...if it was me..i was lay low a few days...do not call him...let him call you..he will want you more...men like the chase..i know..they like mystery and he will he texting you like crazy...it is a game you know...cat and mouse...the more you want them, the more they withdraw...the more you are unavailable the more they want you...same for men and woman..and I am proof..it works girl..really...i wish you the best!0
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