Should I end it with my gf?
What Girls Said 1
Explain the situation to her the same way you just did... talk to her let her know what you think...
What Guys Said 2
Your situation isn't going to change and it doesn't make sense continuing your relationship as it's just getting worse ( the fights will only get harsher). It's best you tell her that you can't do this anymore ( it will hurt her for a little while but there is no way to end things without hurt).
Just like Lui said, you just gotta be mature about this and give her the two choices. But TBH, break up. It sounds like you're already set on breaking up, but came to see if we could change your mind, I don't think it's healthy for you to be like this when your girlfriend seems to be wanting to get serious when you have this much on your plate. you're not going to ever be on the same page unless magically you mom gets otta the wheelchair. Break up bud.
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