I'm sorry if it seems dumb, but I'm just so confused and hurt. Before we first started dating, we were best friends and he knew I was scared of messing up the friendship that came with it but he assured me it'd be fine..
But now he doesn't talk to me and if he does, it's because I initiated and he answers like a robot.
I broke up with him, because it honestly felt like I was putting so much energy into it and he wasn't.
It's 3 months later, I don't want to date him but I want my best friend back.
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To be honest, the reason which you gave for breaking up with him is vague and generally people use it when they do not wanna tell the exact reason (like if they like someone else).
Maybe he also thought the same thing, but respected your decision and went along. But if you start acting like bffs with him, he will not be able to reciprocate (no one would). It may just feel like you tried your "options" and now want to be back. Or like you want to keep him in "friendzone".0