I have been dating this guy for 6 years. My first boyfriend ever. December last year I broke up with him cos for a very long time I felt like I was not a priority in his life. He always made me feel like the person in the wrong and I simply couldn't take it anymore. I really love him. He did not even try to fight for the relationship. Weeks later he called me and said he loves me and would like to be my friend. We were in contact and I thought he wanted to give us another go. I flew to the city he now resides twice and nothing has changed. He is still so busy and would give me the scraps of his time after I've made an effort to see him. Needless to say, he hasn't bothered to come see me and seldomly reaches out to me first. I was a fool to keep in contact with him. How do I get over him?
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First, you need to stop thinking of him. Find some things to do, preferably new if possible so you have to concentrate more on the task at hand. Ask yourself why and what you think you'll gain from thinking of him. Trying to stop these thoughts as soon as they come on is important. Find somebody to confide in, that can be there at any time, talking is important when you get emotional. If you have to, just come on here and vent whenever.1
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