Why are people so cruel?
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I'm sure it is normal to resent blanket men. Sometimes we do resent blanket women. Sometimes it goes away quickly, sometimes it drags out.
The "I was right after all" closure is like hollow victory. Yes, you were right but then it's... Oh... I was right...
Example: I was convinced my ex was still in love with her ex, we fought a lot I left; she started dating him again, they're married now.
So yeah I was "vindicated", she did still love him... But in the end I'm just a throw away.
If he's been cruel, is either because of apathy, ignorance or anger, who was the dumper?