By male Bestfriend who I've talked about in previous posts came to New York this weekend for a family function, we have hardly spoke since we’ve moved out, and for the past 3 weeks he hasn’t spoken to me, untill he texted me and told me he’s in New York this weekend. He brought his girlfriend with him who I hate and everyone hates family/ and friends. He told me that he was staying in a Airbnb 2 mins away from my house and that he wanted to see me and wanted me to come with him to his family event, but his girlfriend doesn’t like how close he is with me and his family, so I really never saw him the whole time he was here, I feel like he’s been ignoring me and shutting me out because she complains and gives him a hard time when it comes to being my friend, yes I am still in love with this man, but I’m trying to come to terms with not being able to be with him. But now I feel like I’m losing my Bestfriend in the whole world forever and it’s killing me what should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
Ask him to meet him one last time face to face and tell him to tell his girlfriend about this last meeting of you. In this meeting tell him everything about how you are hurt and tell him that he is your best friend but this is our last meeting because of your girlfriend and you settle this meeting so you can release your conscious about confessing everything you have and you feel about this and him and to make his conscious more awake toward what he is doing with this friendship and that he is ending it because of his girlfriend and him too... Basically say everything you feel to say and need to be said because eventually this will be your last meeting. After this move on from all of this once for all and tell yourself that it had the occasion to express itself for one last time. If his consciousness is fully aware about what is he doing he will make serious efforts to fix things, or if his consciousness is weaker than the authority of his girlfriend he will make a big mistake losing a wonderful person.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
I'm gonna be completely honest with you. This can turn only turn out a few unfortunate ways. If the girlfriend doesn't like him hanging out with you.. more than likely, he will respect his girlfriend's wishes and keep minimal contact with you... especially if he is serious about this girl. That is what you do in e relationship.. you respect each other wishes. She will more than likely find your persistence about hanging out with "her boyfriend" suspicious and won't understand why you won't respect her wishes. She will more than likely find your closeness with her boyfriend a threat to her. More than likely, "I'm losing my bestfriend in the whole world and it's killing me.." won't still well with her. His girlfriend is supposed to be his best friend. Most people will always choose their lovers over their friends. I highly suggest just confessing your feelings to him privately and seeing if he does truly have the same feelings for you.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE