Most Helpful Guy
Ok I just want to start by saying I get why you freaked out but you were in the wrong to start with. You should've asked him who the girl was and why he misses her. Then if you didn't want him to talk to her ask him if he would avoid conversation with her. Anyway that being said here is what you do now. Tell him you're sorry and that you regret what you did. Tell him that you hope he comes back soon because you miss him, but that you will be patient and wait for him to come back just as long as he promises that he will come back. That's all you say. A break and a breakup are different. A breakup is when you decide that you don't want to be with them and then you're single, a break is when something happened and you need time and space away from the relationship so you can think clearly, but not being single. So you are both still in the relationship it's just that he needs to think about if he wants to keep you in it or if he wants to leave it altogether. If you apologize then that'll help him want to come back sooner. Next time just ask calmly and don't freak out, be patient because often times it's not what it seems at first. That's why older guys don't want to date high school girls if the guy is looking for a real relationship, because lots of drama in highschool girls
Most Helpful Girl
Its so much drama like do you really want to be with someone so willing to call it off? A break basically means time where he can do whatever he wants guilt free and still have you on the back burner.