He is a truck mechanic and all his mechanic buddies and coworkers are very sleazy characters, immoral and very unpleasant to be around.
He told his friends he was dating me and they asked him to show nude pics of me to see if I'm worth it. Although he isn't like his friends, I fear we will have many problems down the road.
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I generally don't like the "it's your friends or me" kind of ultimatums, but sometimes they're legitimate, and this sounds like one of those times.
Tell him you could see it working out with him, but... you can not, and will not, tolerate his friends, so either they have to go, or they have to figure out how to be minimally respectful, or you're gonna go.
I don't see the situation improving, so leaving might be best, but if you could see a relationship with him, because you like who he is, there should be an offering made to fix things, instead of just up and leaving.
Just make sure he doesn't have nudes of you. If you break up and he takes it hard?
Look, I'd like to think he's decent and wouldn't ever do it, because that's how I am, but there is a non-zero chance that if he takes it hard, he might show them your pics.
A lot of guys would never do that. Some guys would.0