Is it ok to cheat on your husband if he cheats on you?


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  • no because that turns you into the same scum that he is

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  • I think that if he has already cheated on you, then your moral obligation to remain faithful has been voided. However, cheating back won't help you or fix your marriage. It would be better to address the situation using communication, possibly therapy, or simply end the relationship.

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What Guys Said 24

  • No, if he has already cheated on you then he doesn't really care that much about you so it's unlikely to cause the same degree of pain as he caused you. Kick him out and maintain your own self respect then go sleep with who ever you want.

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  • I can say two wrongs don't make a right and I guess it depends on it the one wrong to be fixed if there's been issues forever I would say see you later

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  • There's something wrong in your marriage, cheating on him isn't going to fix it.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=whg9p65hOEM

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  • Sure... because two wrongs make a right. Isn't that how it goes?

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  • You leave him and you are single or you can leave him by fucking another guy but you leave him when it's done because you knew and didn't care

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  • Instead of cheating on him behind his back offer a threesome with another guy and make him bi but you would have to return the favour... you never know doing this might make him appreciate you more

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  • Why be in the relationship? Unless you both decide it's an open marriage. Then there won't be cheating.

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  • i dont see any reason to cheat, i think the woman should leave her husband, divorce him and move on. but if she wants to cheat, then she can.

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    • No, always been against cheaters just wondering if makes feel better

    • then you should def divorce him and move on, cheating is never a good idea

  • If someone cheats on you, they don't care about you, why not just divorce him? Why waste your time trying to hurt someone that doesn't care about you

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  • How is this going to help? Just divorce him if you're not going to try to fix your marriage.

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  • Its not a matter of being ok or not.. it just gets too complicated. Better off talking to your husband and finding out where is it heading

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  • "Ok" doesn't really get into the complexity of it. What do you want to do?

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  • Instead of cheating on him, first talk it out. if he doesn't change, divorce him.

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  • No its time to kick him out... does it once they'll do it again 😕

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  • Nope !! if one is making a bad decision doesn't mean other has to do the same !! Better part ways !!

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  • It's not going to help the situation and isn't it better to keep the moral high ground

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  • Yes, but only if you do it with his brother, or better yet, his sister

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  • I'd just get a divorce at that point.

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  • no, never.

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  • Nope you can have sex after you break up

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What Girls Said 14

  • Revenge doesn't solve anything. Just makes you a cheater just like him. Communication is key and figuring out what happens next in your relationship..

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  • It's okay to divorce your husband if he cheats on you. How about that? Don't stoop to his level.

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  • Wouldn't a divorce be better than going down on his niveau?

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  • No, it's not. It is just immature way of showing you are not better than him. Dignity matters.

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  • No Never! makes you just as bad as him and is pretty immature. Sort it out like adults

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  • Two wrongs don't make a right. You're 41, you should know this already.

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  • I don't think so because it still doesn't change the fact that he cheated and at the end if the day you're cheating too.

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  • its not really cheating anymore because you shouldn't be together anymore

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  • No.
    It won't make you feel any better.
    Don't stoop to that level.

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  • two wrongs don't make a right.. leave him and move on

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  • No you will get even more negative feedback because you are an woman.

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  • I dont think it ok no

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  • Nope

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  • cheating is never ok

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